TIME TO LET GO.

Sometimes relationships end after a huge shouting match. Sometimes one person cheated. Sometimes one partner is moving or is ready to get married or wants to have kids. And sometimes, a relationship just runs its course. That last scenario, though, can be hard to interpret: How do you know when it’s time to call it quits, versus whenyou’re just going through a rough patch? We spoke with relationship experts to get a list of eight crucial signs to look out for. If several of these apply to you, and if you’ve worked on them to no avail or if it just feels too late, it could be time to cut the cord

1 YOU’RE FIGHTING OVER EVERTHING

Fact: Fights happen. And some couples just naturally fight more than others. But if your argument pattern is changing and you’re starting to pick fights over the littlest, most insignificant things, that could be an indication that something’s awry

2 YOU’RE STAYING LATE IN THE OFFICE.

“The whole essence of being in love is that you always want more,”. If you’re not feeling any desire to hurry home after a long day at work, ask yourself why.

3 EVERYTHING YOUR PARTNER DOES BOTHERS YOU

This is when a partner’s habit that didn’t bother you before makes nails on a chalkboard seem enjoyable. Maybe it’s that whistle habit he always had. Or maybe 97 percent of what she says gets on your nerves these days. If this is happening more and more, it could be a sign that you’re drifting apart,

4 YOU COME UP WITH EXCUSES NOT TO HAVE SEX

During the honeymoon phase, you and your partner probably wanted to jump each other every time you were in a room together. It’s totally normal for things to cool off a little bit when you’re months or years into a relationship—but if you’re actively avoiding sex, that’s something else,

5 YOU’RE LEGIT INTERESTED IN OTHER PEOPLE

Getting a little steamed up when you watch movie is one thing, but if you’re out with your friends and find yourself seriously flirting with and interested in other people, that likely means you’re not totally happy with the partner you’ve already got, 

6 YOU HAVE NO INTEREST IN MAKING SACRIFICES FOR HIM

Lots of us don’t get pumped about dinner with the in-laws or going to a partner’s work event, but we do it. Because that’s what love is. If you notice that you’re extra, extrauninterested in these kinds of activities, that they don’t even seem worth it to you, consider that a sign that you’re less invested in the relationship

7 YOU CAN’T PICTURE THE FUTURE TOGETHER

“Your lives really do have to fit together,” says Sussman. If you imagine your life five, 10, 20 years from now and you can’t see your partner in it, you might want to ask yourself if that’s because he doesn’t belong there. 

Well...what ever it is thats going in  your relationship or marriage,always remember that if you truly love your spouse,together you can make things work.

If you notice you both arr driffting apart already..make it wok..know what you want and fight for it.

Have a nice day.