YOU CAN BE A LADIES MAN.

There are men who seem to have the magic when they are around women. While many men are struggling to succeed in dating women, there are men who attract women like magnet. Men who are women magnet are the envy of guys who find it hard to succeed in dating women. Did you know that the magnetism of those men can be obtained by any guy? Any man can transform into a ladies man and get out of their bad luck with women. Discover what it takes to transform into a ladies man.

To transform into a ladies man, you have to get noticed. Before you could attract women, you should know how to make your presence felt by everyone around you. A ladies man is someone who enters a room and be able to capture the attention of people around him. To get noticed, it is important to always know the proper clothes to wear and know what fits you well. Experimenting and developing a style that perfectly fits your personality can be very helpful. Maintaining a good posture and being in good shape can make heads turn. No, you do not have to dress like movie stars and be as sexy as ramp models but you just have to be pleasant-looking, confident with your looks and know how to handle yourself. Physical appearance is important to get your foot in the door, so to get noticed by women, you need to be pleasant-looking.

To transform into a ladies man, you have to treat women like ladies. Some men may think gestures like opening a door and pulling a chair for her are old-fashioned, cheesy and corny but it will surprise you that most women love the old-fashioned way. Women like to be treated like ladies or princesses. A real ladies man treats a woman as if she is the center of his universe and that she is like a breakable glass that must be handled with utmost care.

To transform into a ladies man, you have to live life passionately. Living a routine life is not bad but if you want to live life passionately you have to do something better than living a routine life. If you will just do the same things everyday, you are limiting yourself and avoiding great opportunities like gaining new experiences, meeting new people (including women of course) and creating relationships. Get out of your routine life, live passionately and become the best version of yourself. A man who is living life withpassion is an attractive man. Learn new hobbies, travel, meet new people, volunteer in the community, learn a new language, read a good book, etc. There are so many things you can do to live life passionately and in the process become an irresistibly attractive man.

To transform into a ladies man, you have to know how to make women laugh. You do not have to be a comedian but if you naturally love to make other people laugh and want them to feel good, you are an irresistible guy. Women will always remember how you make them laugh even when you are not around and will always look forward to spend more time with you.

To transform into a ladies man, you must have self-confidence. Men who are confident, secured, in control of themselves and self-sufficient are really attractive. Not everyone believes in their worth and have self-confidence so when you come off as confident, you will appear as a strong person who believes in your capabilities and can take care of the people in your life. This trait is what most women are looking for in a man. They do not want a man full of insecurities and do not know his worth.

Any man can be attractive because attracting women is a skill that can be learned.

Have a nice day.

YOU ARE HIS SIDE CHICK NOT THE MAIN BABE.

Babe do you know you may actually be the side  chick yet thinking you re the number one in his life...wake up sis...let's find out ...
This what they do

A They turn their phone off around you – Of course, because you don’t want to hear “will you be my wifey” blasting from his sidekick when the real boo calls.

B They Never Answer Their Phones – The reverse applies…don’t want you calling around the boo and the kids.

C  No Dates – Digiorno and Netflix are part of the best date..or africa magic..he never wanna go out with you to public places.  He prefers you watch music videos together..lol..are you a producer?

D You Haven’t Met The Homies – Self-explanatory. You don’t come around then yeah…no dice..he can't let you meet them..no way.

E  You Don’t Come Around The Crib – You don’t want to see the pics of the family around, do you? So the rendezvous happens at your place all the time.wake up babe..

F They’re Not On Facebook – Harder to get caught up if you’re not on Facebook.he s not dumb like you

G Pictures Get Untagged – You try to tag your boo but those tweets and messages get deleted? Yup.wake up dear.

H You Get Shade And You Don’t Know Why –When other women start insulting pr gossip about you and you have no clue where it came from, it may be because they re wondering  why you're so cheap and bitch to be a side chick..lol..not your fault. ..you don't know you are.

I Lots Of Out Of Town Trips – Surefire way to not get caught? You’re always traveling. Always.dont mix it up..it's not because he loves you or wanna take you on trips..he s playing sage not to get caught..lol

J Common Phrases – “Let’s keep this between us…” “I’m a private person…” beware!lol...tell him your private part is also private....

Half a word is enough for the wise
You re too good to be a side chick..

AFTER THE BREAK UP THEN YOU WAKE UP.

I don’t like it when some people think that just because your relationship only lasted a couple of months you should hurt less than if the relationship had been longer. Again, pain is pain. No one has the right to judge it, put limits on it, or qualify it.
Break up is break up..but then..is it the end of the world? NO AND NO wake up

1. The sun still shines.

Life isn’t ending. Every day you wake up and there is a new day with new people waiting for you to have new experiences. The sun still rises and the sun still sets, life isn’t over and you can’t keep acting like it is. Trust me, life has just begun.

2. There are 7 billion people in the world.

You’re going to let ONE ruin your day? Ruin your mood? There are too many different people in this world who can change your life in so many different positive ways to let one negative, sad excuse for a soul disrupt how much you enjoy everyday life.

3. He isn’t worth it.

No man should ever make you sad. Yeah, they make you angry, they disappoint you, they confuse you but none should ever make you sad. And men who do? Really aren’t worth it. He fooled you, he played you like a fiddle but it’s his loss. Just think about all the men out there waiting to make you happy instead. This stupid one is definitely not worth it.

4. He’s a jerk.

If you’re not worth his time, why should he even be worth your thoughts? Face it, if he “doesn’t know” if he wants you, he’s probably got another girl wrapped around him helping him figure it out or he’s just making sure you don’t move on first. People go after what they want.

5. He’s got a rock for a heart and you don’t.

You love. And that’s good. Loving with all of your heart is something to be proud of. Who cares if you spent that love on the wrong person for a little while? One day someone is not only going to deserve all that love but also know how to handle it AND love you the same way. How awesome will that be?

6. You’re pretty.

WELL, YOU ARE. And pretty girls don’t cry (in public). You’re beautiful, inside and out. You can’t blame yourself or judge yourself based on someone else’s actions. You have to know that this happened for a reason. You, you pretty girl you, you deserve better. You deserve to smile. You deserve to have fun and you deserve someone who enhances your life. Not someone who brings you down.

7. You’re probably remembering the past much better than it actually was.

Life is great and the relationship you guys had might have been too. But in reality, how great could it have been if it led you to where you are right now? It’s okay to see the good but don’t ignore the bad. Your future is going to be
INCREDIBLE, with or without Mr. Awful.

8. You’re bigger than all of this.

You have so much going for you. Focus on the people in your life who encourage you to reach those goals and fill your life with endless support and positive energy in whatever it may be. Those are the people who will be there for you, by your side through the good and the bad. Those are the people who are going to love you no matter what. Those are the people who make everything okay.

9. I really don’t know for sure.

I can’t convince you with just 8 reasons that life goes on and you deserve to be happy. It’s up to you. You have to wake up every single morning and decide to be happy or decide to do something about not being happy. Life is about going after what you want, realizing what and who is truly important and living each second to the fullest. So take a chance. Dye your hair, eat that chocolate bar, skip class and go to the beach, talk to that guy at the bar. Do something crazy.

Because whether or not it works out, whether or not you know exactly where you’re supposed to be in life right now… I can promise that in the end, you are going to be more than okay..trust me.
Have a lovely day.

HE 'S NOT READY TO PROPOSE

Hi 
Happy sunday. Every woman dreams of having a ring on her finger, right?! Long-term relationships are typically the pathway to marriage and beyond. However, not all men have marriage on their mind, at least not without some pushing and prodding.   here are signs he s not ready to propose at all..

  1 When a guy is ready to propose, he will definitely become much more tolerant of going to weddings. If your guy still hates going to weddings, that’s a sign he isn’t ready for his own. Your man’s feelings towards weddings will say a lot about the future of a ring on your finger.

2  When you bring up the topic of marriage, he quickly changes the topic. Or when you do ask him a question about getting engaged and eventually getting married, he gives you a short answer just to shut you up. A man will bring up the topic of marriage when he is truly ready

3 .Your guy has priorities, but marriage definitely isn’t one of them. While he likes having you at his side, he still loves living the life of a bachelor. Marriage to him means being tied down, so there’s an unlikely chance that a ring is coming in the near future

4 While you’ve introduced him to your parents and your siblings, he’s yet to reciprocate. You may know his parents’ names and maybe you’ve said hello over the phone, but you have not met them face-to-face. This is a huge sign that he’s not ready for anything more than what you two already have.

5 Aside from his own future plans that lack you, he has no true interest in hearing what your plans are. When you bring up your future, he seems completely uninterested in what you have planned. When he has no interest in your future plans, he definitely isn’t looking to propose and build a future together.

6 Guys will usually only invest in an engagement ring when they know they are financially well off. If your man doesn’t make a lot of money, that’s fine, there’s always time to make more. However, if your guy has no interest in making more money by getting a better job or trying for a raise, don’t expect a ring.

7 He tells you you’re beautiful. He always praises you on how smart you are or how well you cook. But, the one thing he won’t do is compliment you and include himself. He’s never said that he’s happy or lucky to have you. Or how much better of a life he has now that you’re in it.

8 In many guy’s heads, a family will come once you two are married. However, if he’s yet to discuss children or having a family with you, he may not be willing to put a ring on your finger anytime soon. Until the topic comes up, don’t expect any bling

9 When the topics of getting engaged, marriage, or the future come up, he always has an excuse. He’s too busy and stressed to talk about it. There’s something important on T.V. He has too much going on to focus on buying a ring. Whatever the excuse is, it’s usually a bad one.

10 Your man prefers to hang out with single guys as opposed to people who are married. He wants to surround himself with happy bachelors instead of having friends that talk about their wives. Right now he’s content living a life without the worry of marriage

Dear if all this signs ..you do note in him..pls start thinking of what to.do..he s not ready at all...and time won't wait for you

Radioqueen at 23:16

HOW TO MAKE HER MISS YOU.

Hey guys.
      Do you want her to miss you badly?
Here are secrets that ll help but will only work if you  truly love her

1 Be Funny

A woman can never forget a guy who made her smile and laugh. Nowadays, women are more drawn to men with wit and humor. The act of instilling positive vibes and feelings not only to her but also to the people around you would really catch her heart. If you want to know how to make her miss you, you have to find her sweet spot and crack her out of her comfort zone. However, remember to be sensitive as well. When you are able to do these things, she will surely miss you and look for you when you are not around.

2 Be interesting

If you can pick a woman’s brain and make her think about a lot of things, you would surely be someone whom she would like to be around with more often. When you challenge her mind, she would want to get to the bottom of things and would not let you go until she has found the answer. The key to this is to find something that she likes and ask her questions about it. When she realizes that you are someone who she can talk to about anything, she will definitely look for you when you are not within sight.

3Fill her mind every day

If you are wondering how to make her miss you, you should try filling her mind every day. Do things that would truly leave a positive impact on her each day. This may mean inviting her to do activities that she has never tried before or making sure that every minute you spend together is filled with fun and excitement. Even when you have slowed down for a while, she will be the one who will be looking for an adventure for the both of you.

4Stand out among other guys

In order for her to miss you, you have to make sure that there is something that you can offer that other guys can’t. Make her feel different when she is with you. You have to know what she cares for and is passionate about. Ask her about her interests and make her feel that you really care for her. See past her flaws and focus on her whole personality. A lot of guys only go for the looks, but you should make her feel that you are more interested in her personality. Keep in mind that this will only work if you truly are interested in her.

5Remember the little details

Every person has his own quirks and habits. If you are curious of how to make her miss you, you have to be the guy that remembers all the little details about your woman. It may not mean much to you at first but you would soon realize that nothing moves a woman more than the gesture of remembering every little thing about her. These little things serve as proof that you pay attention to everything that she does.

6Follow a “routine” and go against it

This may mean a little harsh but it would let you know if your woman what your woman truly feels about you. After creating a habit loop for some time, your woman has become conditioned and can already predict what you are going to do next. Give things some twist by going against the routine. This will puzzle her and would make her wonder what happened. However, do this only for a short time as she might mistake it for playing games.

7Be a little mysterious

Pique her interest by not revealing too much of yourself at once. Play a little mystery every once in a while. Make her be the one to approach you and know more about you. When you inject a little bit of mystery in your relationship, you will make her feel that she is missing out on something and she would then be the one to seek you out.

8Surprise her

Every once in a while, go out of your normal routine. Think of all the things that she has been bugging you with that you never had the time to manage. When she least expects it, treat her to this interest of hers and see her emotions go wild. This will make her realize how you truly care for her and her happiness. Events like these would become truly memorable for both of you and would make her miss you every time she looks back at these moments.

9Take some time out

If you want to know how to make her miss you, one good option is to take some time out and give yourself some space. If you always spend time together, you would be too focused on each other and would tend to forget other things outside your relationship. If you let her and yourself have some time out, you would both appreciate what it feels like to have each other. When this happens, both of you would look forward to seeing each other again and spending time again.

10Take the lead

A woman likes it when her man knows how to take the lead. A woman likes seeing her man in control of things. This makes her more comfortable and dependent on her man. When she is so used to you leading the relationship, she will miss you when you are not around.

TIME TO ATTRACT HIM.

If you ve been having trouble attracting men and getting a date, you may be unknowingly sending vibes that push men away. Men think differently than women, so you have to understand how the male psyche works in order to get his attention. Know what to do to grab his attention.

STEP 1

Play hard to get. The worst thing you can do is to smother a guy or appear desperate. Men are attracted to the thrill of the chase, so if you're chasing after him, you're taking away the challenge. Keep it low-key and keep him on the edge of his seat. Maintain your composure. Your outward indifference may make him want you more.

STEP 2

Be mysterious. A huge part of attracting men is letting them figure you out. Don't talk his ear off about every detail of your life or your feelings. Carefully think about what you say and don't fill the conversation with idle gabbing. Also, don't make yourself available all the time. Allow him to wonder where you are and what you're doing.

STEP 3

Display intelligence and depth. Don't say "like" and "um" in every sentence. Intelligence is sexy. A smart woman who knows what she wants and how to get it will attract men everywhere she goes. Displaying your intellect reveals that you have depth. This will attract men more effectively than coming across as dim.

STEP 4

Be fun, in ways that men think are fun. This rule of attraction seems simple enough, but so many girls get it wrong. Don't be too much of a stereotypical "girl." Be able to let your hair down and tell jokes, watch sports, play video games or poker with him and try to enjoy the things that he enjoys. He's not interested in holding your purse while you shop. Nor does he care what happened on last week's episode of Days of Our Lives. Hang out at sports bars with him. He'll want you even more.

STEP 5

Take care of your appearance. A woman who takes care of herself will attract men easier than one who doesn't. Shower with nice-smelling bath products. Use a feminine scented deodorant. Brush your teeth well and always keep mints and gum on hand. If you talk to a guy and your breath is less than fresh, he's not going to notice anything else about you. Keep your hair neat and clean and take pride in your looks. Use a perfume that smells sweet and sensual.

STEP 6

Dress to kill. Dress in clothes that make you feel sexy. You don't have to look like a tramp, just keep in mind the styles that are attractive to men. Wear feminine clothing that accentuates your figure and hugs your body just right. Use the colors red or pink to your advantage; remember, men are visual.

STEP 7

Flirt with body language. Lean in close to him when you talk. Touch his hand or shoulder during conversation. Smile and be genuinely interested in what he has to say. Turn your body toward him when you two are in close proximity. Don't make these flirting techniques over-exaggerated and noticeable, however. Let your natural flirtatiousness shine
Have a nice day ....

WHEN YOU DON'T GIVE HER ATTENTION

Many men find women hard to read; but if you know the signs, you'll know exactly what your wife needs. Most of the time, she just needs some more attention from you. Here are seven ways you can know if that's the case:

1. She acts jealous

If she seems jealous of your work, friends or even other ladies, it's probably because you aren't treating her like she is your top priority. Because your spouse should be No. 1 in your life, if you are devoting less attention to her than to other people or responsibilities, she is definitely lacking attention that she deserves.

2 She stopped asking you for things

If she used to ask for your help or opinion and she doesn't anymore, she's probably grown accustomed to you not helping out very much. To fix this, ask her deep questions about her life, or what you can do for her; or just go ahead and do something for her without having to ask.

3. She's dressing to impress

If she's spending a little extra time twisting up her hair or she wears something she knows you like, she probably is doing it to catch your eye. Let her catch your eye. She needs that attention from you.or she gets the attention  elsewhere.

4. She's being nit-picky

If your wife is starting to get on your case about the small stuff more than usual, she probably is in need of your attention. If she doesn't get enough time with the real you, your annoying habits can eclipse all your goodness.

5 She tells you she misses you a lot

The most obvious way you're going to know that your wife needs more attention is if she flat-out tells you. She may miss your physical presence in her life or the close emotional relationship the two of you used to share. No matter what, if she's telling you she misses you, you need to devote more of your time to her.

6. You find out more on social media than in person

If you log into Facebook to find out what's going on with your lady, something's not right. You should know about her life before the Web does. Text or call her throughout the day so you can know what's going on with her.

7 You go to bed at different times

Both of you need the personal attention that getting ready for bed and laying in the dark waiting for sleep to come affords. If the two of you aren't going to bed at the same time, you need to make the change so you both get that time together.