HE 'S NOT READY TO PROPOSE

Hi 
Happy sunday. Every woman dreams of having a ring on her finger, right?! Long-term relationships are typically the pathway to marriage and beyond. However, not all men have marriage on their mind, at least not without some pushing and prodding.   here are signs he s not ready to propose at all..

  1 When a guy is ready to propose, he will definitely become much more tolerant of going to weddings. If your guy still hates going to weddings, that’s a sign he isn’t ready for his own. Your man’s feelings towards weddings will say a lot about the future of a ring on your finger.

2  When you bring up the topic of marriage, he quickly changes the topic. Or when you do ask him a question about getting engaged and eventually getting married, he gives you a short answer just to shut you up. A man will bring up the topic of marriage when he is truly ready

3 .Your guy has priorities, but marriage definitely isn’t one of them. While he likes having you at his side, he still loves living the life of a bachelor. Marriage to him means being tied down, so there’s an unlikely chance that a ring is coming in the near future

4 While you’ve introduced him to your parents and your siblings, he’s yet to reciprocate. You may know his parents’ names and maybe you’ve said hello over the phone, but you have not met them face-to-face. This is a huge sign that he’s not ready for anything more than what you two already have.

5 Aside from his own future plans that lack you, he has no true interest in hearing what your plans are. When you bring up your future, he seems completely uninterested in what you have planned. When he has no interest in your future plans, he definitely isn’t looking to propose and build a future together.

6 Guys will usually only invest in an engagement ring when they know they are financially well off. If your man doesn’t make a lot of money, that’s fine, there’s always time to make more. However, if your guy has no interest in making more money by getting a better job or trying for a raise, don’t expect a ring.

7 He tells you you’re beautiful. He always praises you on how smart you are or how well you cook. But, the one thing he won’t do is compliment you and include himself. He’s never said that he’s happy or lucky to have you. Or how much better of a life he has now that you’re in it.

8 In many guy’s heads, a family will come once you two are married. However, if he’s yet to discuss children or having a family with you, he may not be willing to put a ring on your finger anytime soon. Until the topic comes up, don’t expect any bling

9 When the topics of getting engaged, marriage, or the future come up, he always has an excuse. He’s too busy and stressed to talk about it. There’s something important on T.V. He has too much going on to focus on buying a ring. Whatever the excuse is, it’s usually a bad one.

10 Your man prefers to hang out with single guys as opposed to people who are married. He wants to surround himself with happy bachelors instead of having friends that talk about their wives. Right now he’s content living a life without the worry of marriage

Dear if all this signs ..you do note in him..pls start thinking of what to.do..he s not ready at all...and time won't wait for you

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HOW TO MAKE HER MISS YOU.

Hey guys.
      Do you want her to miss you badly?
Here are secrets that ll help but will only work if you  truly love her

1 Be Funny

A woman can never forget a guy who made her smile and laugh. Nowadays, women are more drawn to men with wit and humor. The act of instilling positive vibes and feelings not only to her but also to the people around you would really catch her heart. If you want to know how to make her miss you, you have to find her sweet spot and crack her out of her comfort zone. However, remember to be sensitive as well. When you are able to do these things, she will surely miss you and look for you when you are not around.

2 Be interesting

If you can pick a woman’s brain and make her think about a lot of things, you would surely be someone whom she would like to be around with more often. When you challenge her mind, she would want to get to the bottom of things and would not let you go until she has found the answer. The key to this is to find something that she likes and ask her questions about it. When she realizes that you are someone who she can talk to about anything, she will definitely look for you when you are not within sight.

3Fill her mind every day

If you are wondering how to make her miss you, you should try filling her mind every day. Do things that would truly leave a positive impact on her each day. This may mean inviting her to do activities that she has never tried before or making sure that every minute you spend together is filled with fun and excitement. Even when you have slowed down for a while, she will be the one who will be looking for an adventure for the both of you.

4Stand out among other guys

In order for her to miss you, you have to make sure that there is something that you can offer that other guys can’t. Make her feel different when she is with you. You have to know what she cares for and is passionate about. Ask her about her interests and make her feel that you really care for her. See past her flaws and focus on her whole personality. A lot of guys only go for the looks, but you should make her feel that you are more interested in her personality. Keep in mind that this will only work if you truly are interested in her.

5Remember the little details

Every person has his own quirks and habits. If you are curious of how to make her miss you, you have to be the guy that remembers all the little details about your woman. It may not mean much to you at first but you would soon realize that nothing moves a woman more than the gesture of remembering every little thing about her. These little things serve as proof that you pay attention to everything that she does.

6Follow a “routine” and go against it

This may mean a little harsh but it would let you know if your woman what your woman truly feels about you. After creating a habit loop for some time, your woman has become conditioned and can already predict what you are going to do next. Give things some twist by going against the routine. This will puzzle her and would make her wonder what happened. However, do this only for a short time as she might mistake it for playing games.

7Be a little mysterious

Pique her interest by not revealing too much of yourself at once. Play a little mystery every once in a while. Make her be the one to approach you and know more about you. When you inject a little bit of mystery in your relationship, you will make her feel that she is missing out on something and she would then be the one to seek you out.

8Surprise her

Every once in a while, go out of your normal routine. Think of all the things that she has been bugging you with that you never had the time to manage. When she least expects it, treat her to this interest of hers and see her emotions go wild. This will make her realize how you truly care for her and her happiness. Events like these would become truly memorable for both of you and would make her miss you every time she looks back at these moments.

9Take some time out

If you want to know how to make her miss you, one good option is to take some time out and give yourself some space. If you always spend time together, you would be too focused on each other and would tend to forget other things outside your relationship. If you let her and yourself have some time out, you would both appreciate what it feels like to have each other. When this happens, both of you would look forward to seeing each other again and spending time again.

10Take the lead

A woman likes it when her man knows how to take the lead. A woman likes seeing her man in control of things. This makes her more comfortable and dependent on her man. When she is so used to you leading the relationship, she will miss you when you are not around.

TIME TO ATTRACT HIM.

If you ve been having trouble attracting men and getting a date, you may be unknowingly sending vibes that push men away. Men think differently than women, so you have to understand how the male psyche works in order to get his attention. Know what to do to grab his attention.

STEP 1

Play hard to get. The worst thing you can do is to smother a guy or appear desperate. Men are attracted to the thrill of the chase, so if you're chasing after him, you're taking away the challenge. Keep it low-key and keep him on the edge of his seat. Maintain your composure. Your outward indifference may make him want you more.

STEP 2

Be mysterious. A huge part of attracting men is letting them figure you out. Don't talk his ear off about every detail of your life or your feelings. Carefully think about what you say and don't fill the conversation with idle gabbing. Also, don't make yourself available all the time. Allow him to wonder where you are and what you're doing.

STEP 3

Display intelligence and depth. Don't say "like" and "um" in every sentence. Intelligence is sexy. A smart woman who knows what she wants and how to get it will attract men everywhere she goes. Displaying your intellect reveals that you have depth. This will attract men more effectively than coming across as dim.

STEP 4

Be fun, in ways that men think are fun. This rule of attraction seems simple enough, but so many girls get it wrong. Don't be too much of a stereotypical "girl." Be able to let your hair down and tell jokes, watch sports, play video games or poker with him and try to enjoy the things that he enjoys. He's not interested in holding your purse while you shop. Nor does he care what happened on last week's episode of Days of Our Lives. Hang out at sports bars with him. He'll want you even more.

STEP 5

Take care of your appearance. A woman who takes care of herself will attract men easier than one who doesn't. Shower with nice-smelling bath products. Use a feminine scented deodorant. Brush your teeth well and always keep mints and gum on hand. If you talk to a guy and your breath is less than fresh, he's not going to notice anything else about you. Keep your hair neat and clean and take pride in your looks. Use a perfume that smells sweet and sensual.

STEP 6

Dress to kill. Dress in clothes that make you feel sexy. You don't have to look like a tramp, just keep in mind the styles that are attractive to men. Wear feminine clothing that accentuates your figure and hugs your body just right. Use the colors red or pink to your advantage; remember, men are visual.

STEP 7

Flirt with body language. Lean in close to him when you talk. Touch his hand or shoulder during conversation. Smile and be genuinely interested in what he has to say. Turn your body toward him when you two are in close proximity. Don't make these flirting techniques over-exaggerated and noticeable, however. Let your natural flirtatiousness shine
Have a nice day ....

WHEN YOU DON'T GIVE HER ATTENTION

Many men find women hard to read; but if you know the signs, you'll know exactly what your wife needs. Most of the time, she just needs some more attention from you. Here are seven ways you can know if that's the case:

1. She acts jealous

If she seems jealous of your work, friends or even other ladies, it's probably because you aren't treating her like she is your top priority. Because your spouse should be No. 1 in your life, if you are devoting less attention to her than to other people or responsibilities, she is definitely lacking attention that she deserves.

2 She stopped asking you for things

If she used to ask for your help or opinion and she doesn't anymore, she's probably grown accustomed to you not helping out very much. To fix this, ask her deep questions about her life, or what you can do for her; or just go ahead and do something for her without having to ask.

3. She's dressing to impress

If she's spending a little extra time twisting up her hair or she wears something she knows you like, she probably is doing it to catch your eye. Let her catch your eye. She needs that attention from you.or she gets the attention  elsewhere.

4. She's being nit-picky

If your wife is starting to get on your case about the small stuff more than usual, she probably is in need of your attention. If she doesn't get enough time with the real you, your annoying habits can eclipse all your goodness.

5 She tells you she misses you a lot

The most obvious way you're going to know that your wife needs more attention is if she flat-out tells you. She may miss your physical presence in her life or the close emotional relationship the two of you used to share. No matter what, if she's telling you she misses you, you need to devote more of your time to her.

6. You find out more on social media than in person

If you log into Facebook to find out what's going on with your lady, something's not right. You should know about her life before the Web does. Text or call her throughout the day so you can know what's going on with her.

7 You go to bed at different times

Both of you need the personal attention that getting ready for bed and laying in the dark waiting for sleep to come affords. If the two of you aren't going to bed at the same time, you need to make the change so you both get that time together.

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SEX IS NOT LOVE.

Dear ladies,

Sex is NOT love. Love is not
sex.
You can have sex and not be in
love. You can be in love and not
engage in sex. A man may hate
you
and still have sex with you. Be
wise.
Using sex to manipulate a man
will
eventually fail. It is self
deception to
think that giving him sex will
make
him love you. True Love will
never
force you to engage in sex. A
man
who doesn't love you will not
change his mind because of
sex. If
he tells you to ‘prove your love’
by
having sex with him. He is only
using you. If he is in it for the
sex,
‘better sex’ will take him away
from
you.
Making yourself his ‘sex slave’
is
foolish. Love will never shame
or
degrade you. If you have made
the
mistake of trying to use sex to
buy
this man, now is the time to re-
assess your relationship and
build
it on the right foundation. If he
gets
married to you because ‘the sex
is
good’, it will be fatal to your
marriage. Let him get married to
you because he loves you,
honors
you, feels a strong emotional,
mental and spiritual connection
with you and wants you to
spend
the rest of his life with you.
Don't get it twisted......
Happy weekend.

NAMES TO CALL YOUR SPOUSE

Couples don't always have to address each other on first name basis or stick to calling each other one pet name.

There are many other sweet names to call your significant other so you really don't have to run out of names

I ll share with you lists a few awesome names you can call your significant other:

1 Baby: You either love this nickname or hate it. Of course, you're not restricted to using the word by itself. You can always add on to it if you feel the need. There are tons of pet names for your significant other that begin with ‘baby.' There’s 'baby doll,' 'baby face,' and even 'baby boy.' Stick to whatever sounds best to you.

2 Darling: This is a cute and simple way to address your partner. It's similar to the name 'dear,' because it suggests that you really care about the other person. It's perfect for both a serious relationship and one that's just starting, because it's something that you could also call your close friends.

3 Honey: Honey is sweet, which is why you should use this when talking to your super sweet partner. You could also call them 'honey bun' when you want a different sounding nickname. Either way, they'll love hearing your voice say it.

4 Pumpkin: There are dozens of nicknames that involve food, so this is not your only option. You could also use the name 'pudding,' 'muffin,' or even 'cookie.' The list goes on and on. Just open up your fridge to think of some new ideas.

5 Sweetie: This nickname is self-explanatory. Use it on your partner if you believe that they're the embodiment of sweetness. They're sure to return the favor by calling you a name that's just as flattering.

6 Boo: This one has become pretty popular. If you want something simple and sexy, this is your best choice. It sounds casual, but it also suggests that you're together for the long haul.

7 Angel: If you think that your partner is perfect in every way, then this nickname should fit them perfectly. They can do no wrong, so to you, they're like a little angel.

8 Handsome: Everybody loves to be reminded of how attractive they are. If you don’t like the word 'handsome,' then you can say ‘gorgeous’ or ‘sexy.’ No matter what, it'll show your partner that you're still swooning over their looks.

9 Cutie Pie: Sometimes, it's hard to handle the adorableness of your partner. During those times, you can break out this nickname. You might not want to use it in front of his (or her) friends and embarrass them, but you can use it all you want in private.

10 Love: If your partner is the love of your life, then you might as well address them as such. You could also get more cutesy by calling them 'lover boy,' or 'love muffin.’ Anything's a possibility.

11 Wife/ Wifey: A playful way to refer to your wife.

12 Husband/ Hubby: A playful way to refer to your husband.

13 Better Half: Similar to “the other half” (above), to refer to your romantic partner as your better half is another really nice to say that they complete you, but also an endearing (and figurative) way to say that you admire this person (by saying that you they are better than you).

14 Honey/hun

This next one is a bit old-school but is still going strong.  Very casual and is often used before making a request.  “Hey hun, can you please get me a glass of water while you’re up?”

15 Love

This is an affection term people who are in love might use to address each other, only for romantic partners.

16 Dear

This is a term of affection not just for couples, but your mom also might call you “dear.” Note: just a warning, do not call strangers dear. You can use it to start a letter (i.e. “Dear Justin”) but don’t call somebody “dear” unless you have an intimate or family relationship with them.
Etc

When you call your spouse by a sappy nickname, it is a sign of affection.

Which ever name you decide to call your spouse. ..it will help to build the bind you both share..trust me on this..
Have a nice day