Friday, 19 August 2016

WHEN YOU DON'T GIVE HER ATTENTION

Many men find women hard to read; but if you know the signs, you'll know exactly what your wife needs. Most of the time, she just needs some more attention from you. Here are seven ways you can know if that's the case:

1. She acts jealous

If she seems jealous of your work, friends or even other ladies, it's probably because you aren't treating her like she is your top priority. Because your spouse should be No. 1 in your life, if you are devoting less attention to her than to other people or responsibilities, she is definitely lacking attention that she deserves.

2 She stopped asking you for things

If she used to ask for your help or opinion and she doesn't anymore, she's probably grown accustomed to you not helping out very much. To fix this, ask her deep questions about her life, or what you can do for her; or just go ahead and do something for her without having to ask.

3. She's dressing to impress

If she's spending a little extra time twisting up her hair or she wears something she knows you like, she probably is doing it to catch your eye. Let her catch your eye. She needs that attention from you.or she gets the attention  elsewhere.

4. She's being nit-picky

If your wife is starting to get on your case about the small stuff more than usual, she probably is in need of your attention. If she doesn't get enough time with the real you, your annoying habits can eclipse all your goodness.

5 She tells you she misses you a lot

The most obvious way you're going to know that your wife needs more attention is if she flat-out tells you. She may miss your physical presence in her life or the close emotional relationship the two of you used to share. No matter what, if she's telling you she misses you, you need to devote more of your time to her.

6. You find out more on social media than in person

If you log into Facebook to find out what's going on with your lady, something's not right. You should know about her life before the Web does. Text or call her throughout the day so you can know what's going on with her.

7 You go to bed at different times

Both of you need the personal attention that getting ready for bed and laying in the dark waiting for sleep to come affords. If the two of you aren't going to bed at the same time, you need to make the change so you both get that time together.

Saturday, 13 August 2016

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Friday, 12 August 2016

SEX IS NOT LOVE.

Dear ladies,

Sex is NOT love. Love is not
sex.
You can have sex and not be in
love. You can be in love and not
engage in sex. A man may hate
you
and still have sex with you. Be
wise.
Using sex to manipulate a man
will
eventually fail. It is self
deception to
think that giving him sex will
make
him love you. True Love will
never
force you to engage in sex. A
man
who doesn't love you will not
change his mind because of
sex. If
he tells you to ‘prove your love’
by
having sex with him. He is only
using you. If he is in it for the
sex,
‘better sex’ will take him away
from
you.
Making yourself his ‘sex slave’
is
foolish. Love will never shame
or
degrade you. If you have made
the
mistake of trying to use sex to
buy
this man, now is the time to re-
assess your relationship and
build
it on the right foundation. If he
gets
married to you because ‘the sex
is
good’, it will be fatal to your
marriage. Let him get married to
you because he loves you,
honors
you, feels a strong emotional,
mental and spiritual connection
with you and wants you to
spend
the rest of his life with you.
Don't get it twisted......
Happy weekend.

Tuesday, 9 August 2016

NAMES TO CALL YOUR SPOUSE


Couples don't always have to address each other on first name basis or stick to calling each other one pet name.

There are many other sweet names to call your significant other so you really don't have to run out of names

I ll share with you lists a few awesome names you can call your significant other:

1 Baby: You either love this nickname or hate it. Of course, you're not restricted to using the word by itself. You can always add on to it if you feel the need. There are tons of pet names for your significant other that begin with ‘baby.' There’s 'baby doll,' 'baby face,' and even 'baby boy.' Stick to whatever sounds best to you.

2 Darling: This is a cute and simple way to address your partner. It's similar to the name 'dear,' because it suggests that you really care about the other person. It's perfect for both a serious relationship and one that's just starting, because it's something that you could also call your close friends.

3 Honey: Honey is sweet, which is why you should use this when talking to your super sweet partner. You could also call them 'honey bun' when you want a different sounding nickname. Either way, they'll love hearing your voice say it.

4 Pumpkin: There are dozens of nicknames that involve food, so this is not your only option. You could also use the name 'pudding,' 'muffin,' or even 'cookie.' The list goes on and on. Just open up your fridge to think of some new ideas.

5 Sweetie: This nickname is self-explanatory. Use it on your partner if you believe that they're the embodiment of sweetness. They're sure to return the favor by calling you a name that's just as flattering.

6 Boo: This one has become pretty popular. If you want something simple and sexy, this is your best choice. It sounds casual, but it also suggests that you're together for the long haul.

7 Angel: If you think that your partner is perfect in every way, then this nickname should fit them perfectly. They can do no wrong, so to you, they're like a little angel.

8 Handsome: Everybody loves to be reminded of how attractive they are. If you don’t like the word 'handsome,' then you can say ‘gorgeous’ or ‘sexy.’ No matter what, it'll show your partner that you're still swooning over their looks.

9 Cutie Pie: Sometimes, it's hard to handle the adorableness of your partner. During those times, you can break out this nickname. You might not want to use it in front of his (or her) friends and embarrass them, but you can use it all you want in private.

10 Love: If your partner is the love of your life, then you might as well address them as such. You could also get more cutesy by calling them 'lover boy,' or 'love muffin.’ Anything's a possibility.

11 Wife/ Wifey: A playful way to refer to your wife.

12 Husband/ Hubby: A playful way to refer to your husband.

13 Better Half: Similar to “the other half” (above), to refer to your romantic partner as your better half is another really nice to say that they complete you, but also an endearing (and figurative) way to say that you admire this person (by saying that you they are better than you).

14 Honey/hun

This next one is a bit old-school but is still going strong.  Very casual and is often used before making a request.  “Hey hun, can you please get me a glass of water while you’re up?”

15 Love

This is an affection term people who are in love might use to address each other, only for romantic partners.

16 Dear

This is a term of affection not just for couples, but your mom also might call you “dear.” Note: just a warning, do not call strangers dear. You can use it to start a letter (i.e. “Dear Justin”) but don’t call somebody “dear” unless you have an intimate or family relationship with them.
Etc

When you call your spouse by a sappy nickname, it is a sign of affection.

Which ever name you decide to call your spouse. ..it will help to build the bind you both share..trust me on this..
Have a nice day

Saturday, 6 August 2016

WHY YOU SHOULD LOVE AGAIN.

I have seen people wonder the necessity behind loving another person after a heartbreak or two. The truth is that to experience joy, you have to feel pain. Nothing great comes without some effort. And to love can be the best effort you give to someone special, to love can be a defining point in your life where and when you discover the true essence of your being and perhaps your youth.

There is nothing certain with love. It is limitless and an adventure and for these it presents to you the perfect reasons why you should love, even once again.

You owe it to your being

The true essence of man or woman is to love, to find joy and acceptance in giving another being. When you love, you see something within you that you have never seen – your vulnerability, your purity.

You can sacrifice so much

It is not about taking, it is about giving and offering so much. Sometimes it is all for nothing, but you are happy because you did what nature can proclaim right, perfect and just.

You are happy

To fall in love comes with an excitement. It makes you feel connected to another person in such a way that you have never felt before. You are happy and you are on your path to find restiveness.

You are bold

There is never one who falls in love who does not wear the coat of courage and fearlessness. With love you want to be more, you want to do more, believe more and see more.

You can hope

You hope for the best, you believe that things would work out for the best. Even if it doesn’t seem clear now, you are willing to take your chances.

You can admit someone into your world

There are no bars with love. You can admit another person in your world and let them become a part of it. the truth is that with love you find freedom, not just for yourself but for others.

You learn

You can never know love or learn what it means until you have loved. To love is a search for what is right and what is compatible or adjustable to you. the learning experience love provides you gives you the pedestal to even loving the more.

You can make the impossible possible

With love a lot of things are possible. Love changes people and make you change. Love has a way of making you see the world differently.

You can ask the right questions

It is only from love the question like will you be my wife? Or will I be spending the rest of my life with you, is born. You can only take chances of eternal commitment with another person only when you have come to love and trust that person. these things do not happen by accident. However when things are built out of love, you are willing to ask the right questions and know the truth about those things you want.

You can forgive and hold the best memories

Love may not last forever. But the memories you will keep from it, may be treasures you hold forever. Love provides some of the best memories you can think of. It gives you the opportunity to explore and discover those things you may never have been willing to do on your own. Love gives you interesting memories.

Love as much as you can. Yes you may be less willing after a decent try or two. But in those edges will you find something smooth that you will keep and treasure for the rest of your life!

Friday, 5 August 2016

THE LAWS OF KEEPING A WOMAN.

1) Never take a woman for granted or neglect her. The moment you do, she’ll start scanning the field and you won’t know it.

2) Do not cheat on her, or cheat her. A woman’s revenge could be emotionally lethal.

3)Do not boss her around, push her to do anything she doesn’t want to do, or force her to give you ANYTHING.

4) Do not expect her to wait on you hand and foot. She will take your foot and put it in your hand.

5) Be appreciative for all she does for you and show her appreciation for being in YOUR life. When you start acting like she should be happy she is in YOUR life, she will go out to prove you otherwise.

6) Never lay a hand on her, unless it is to caress her.

7) Never make her second to anything.This is the biggest mistake any man can do.

8) Don’t ever disrespect her or her family, even if she complains about them. It is OK for her to do it, but never for you. Remember this.

9) Always GIVE more than you take from her to stay a man in her eyes. When a woman has to support you, in her mind, you are her bitch.

10) Never treat a woman like a man, or she will treat you like a woman.

11) Be truthful to her always — even if it hurts. A woman respects a man of Truth and men that lie repeatedly will never be taken seriously — only playfully.

12) Women are like cats. Even when they play stupid, their radars are always perceptive and receptive to all that is happening around them. Do not play around your woman, or she will play you in the end.

13) Never be afraid to show a woman your emotions. Do not expect her to know how you feel if you don’t reveal anything. Never hold back on love. When a woman feels something is missing, or that you are not in the relationship 100%, she will seek a more complete love elsewhere. Believe it.

14) Support your woman’s dreams as if you were her number one fan and you will always be her number one man.

15) Push a woman to fulfill her passions, and she will always be passionate about you. Stay in tune with the developments of her hobbies and projects, and she will be in tune with you. Even if she loves designing tiny hats for squirrels, what you should love is the excitement from her eyes whenever you see her doing what she loves.

16) Treat your woman as if she were your precious daughter, more than you treat her as your mother — even if she is older than you. Women are like kittens. They love your attention, affection, pampering, to be spoiled, and really enjoy being showed and told new things. Remember, women will always have more options than men. They will only stay with the one who treats them best.

17) A woman typically gives a man two chances for serious error. If he messes up more than twice, it is highly unlikely there will be a third. After the second slip-up, she already sees you as a different person.

18) Always trust a woman’s intuition and never take her mind for that of a fool. If she tells you something, but then you have to go and ask for someone else’s opinion in front of her, if she was right she will never let it go. She will start taking you for the idiot. All it takes is once.

19) The same way the Sun is the lamp of the universe, your woman should always be treated as the lamp of your life.

20) Do not ever put her down in front of your friends or family. This will only make her despise your family and friends, and she won’t forget to return the favor.

21) If she loves her family, try to love them as if they were yours too. She will love you more for sincerely trying.

22) If you end up with a first-rate woman, never treat her less than first-rate. She will leave you for a first-rate man once you do.

23) Never give your woman third-rate gifts (junk, used, discounted, as is, tacky). If you can’t afford to get her something first-rate, make her something from your heart, or wait until you have enough money to get her a first-rate gift. A woman would rather be given nice gifts, rather than a bunch of junky gifts. It shows her how you see her. Believe it.

24) Never let your woman stand alone when she is being opposed. Always stand by her in the presence of opposition, and when you are in private then you can tell her your real thoughts on a situation. She will love you for not exposing her out in the open. Always stand by your woman. Always! However, if she is someone who always does people wrong, then she is wrong for you. If she is good and she is the one being wronged, if you sit down or do nothing, she will be gone. Women do not like weak men. Those women that tolerate weak men are very weak women.

Treat your relationship as if you are growing the most beautiful sacred flower. Keep watering it, tend to the roots, and always make sure the petals are full of color and are never curling. Once you neglect your plant, it will die, as will your relationship. If your woman has left you heartbroken, then know it is most likely due to you violating at least one of the above. If you violated more than two, then know you had a very good woman.

Now, for women, how do you treat a man and keep him?
Do all the above for him too.
Have a nice day.

Thursday, 4 August 2016

LIVE A HAPPY LIFE.

Hey..it's been quiet a while ...hope you re doing just fine? Today I ll share with you simple tips that can help you to live a happy and fulfilled  life.

1 Take a 10-30 minute walk every day and while you walk, smile.

  2Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

  3When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, “My purpose is to … today.”

 4Live with the 3 E’s: Energy, Enthusiasm, Empathy, and the 3 F’s: Faith, Family, Friends.

5 Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.

7 Dream more while you are awake.

8 Try to make at least three people smile each day.

9 Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn, pass all your tests. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

 10 Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away.

  11Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
 Life is too short to waste time hating anyone
.
 12 Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

 13 You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagreements
.
14 Make peace with your past, so it won’t mess up the present.

15 Don’t compare your life with others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

16 Burn the candles, use the nice sheets. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

17 No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

18 Forgive everyone for everything.

19 What other people think of you is none of your business.

 20Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.

 21However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

 22Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will stay in touch.

 23Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful, or joyful.

 24The best is yet to come… Believe.

 25 No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.

 26 Do the right thing!

 27 Call your family often.

 28 Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements: “I am thankful for…” – “Today I accomplished…”

 29 Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

 30 Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainly don’t want a fast pass. Make the most of it and enjoy the ride.

Do have a lovely day.